Once in Despair, Fernando Found Light and Hope

The second oldest of four children, Fernando was no stranger to hard work and to working hard.

As he grew up, he labored in factories making jeans, bags and more. He eventually moved on to manage four apartments then found work as a construction worker. He ultimately retired in 2014, unaware of the dark days ahead that would consume him.

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Fernando fell into depression wanting nothing to do with anyone. He became somewhat of a recluse keeping to himself in his apartment and rarely leaving; not even to see his children nor his four grandchildren. His children were unsure of what to do to help their father recuperate. This life of hopelessness continued for three more years for Fernando.

While on a walk in January 2017, Fernando found SBSS. Cautiously curious, he started slow seeing which activities and programs caught his interest. He also discovered that the agency provided direct services for seniors and older adults. He benefited from the support of his social worker, Miguel, who helped Fernando set up his health insurance and Social Security Income benefits. Miguel also connected Fernando with different activities at SBSS’ senior centers.

“I have a lot of appreciation for SBSS. And the day that I leave, I’ll never forget what has been done for me,” said Fernando.

Fernando is in a much better place now as he has embraced a positive lifestyle committed to a fit mind and body. Mornings begin with a 6 a.m. daily run. He regularly attends computer classes and participates in karaoke and playing billiards.

“I lost the battle not the war.” Fernando is grateful to SBSS for helping him recuperate from depression.

Fernando’s new goal is to live in the present, preferring to be happy and not dwell on the past.

“For me, what happened yesterday doesn’t interest me. A lot of the time, we live in the past. We think about what happened yesterday, the week prior. It doesn’t do me any good because it already happened. Good or bad, it already happened.”

Help us build our team of senior care case managers to provide older adult counseling, maintain reassurance calls, and increase social services to prevent older adults from the grips of depression and hopelessness. Please donate and give hope today.

I want to end the day the same way I began it. Happy.
— Fernando, 69 years young

Moving Boldly Beyond Limitations, Vidilia Discovers Community

Imagine waking up paralyzed, suffered two strokes and two back surgeries then told you had dystonia, a nerve and muscle disorder, would you desire to live your best life? 

Vidilia Kinsey does and that’s exactly what she’s doing at St. Barnabas Senior Services.

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No stranger to illness, Vidilia’s health began to decline in 1999 and yet she will not let her circumstances limit her motivation to live life forward. 

“I refuse to be confined to a wheelchair, a portable potty, a walker and a hospital bed with medicine on the side. If you’re positive when you get sick, it’s still you,” said Vidilia. “I have so much to offer others.”

On her milestone 60th birthday, Vidilia arrived at SBSS to see what the senior services agency had to offer. She discovered more than she expected.

“We are like kids up in here. We can laugh out loud, we can talk. And everybody respects everybody. Everyone has a different personality, but they are friendly people.  Everyone is hanging out. Nobody cares about what time it is. I like Zumba. I love to dance, to move all the time.”

  Vidilia and her friends bowling and cheering each other on!


Vidilia and her friends bowling and cheering each other on!

Aside from Zumba, Vidilia bowls with friends! Well, virtual reality bowling on Xbox Kinect but nonetheless stays active and strengthens her mobility in the company of other seniors through gaming.

Ask us and we’d say that SBSS not only gave Vidilia a place to rehabilitate, but a safe and supportive community to stabilize herself. Oh, and Vidilia, we agree; you do have so much to offer others!

Help us transform the lives of seniors like Vidilia through our Fitness Club and social activities. Please donate and give the gift of joy today.

It’s energy, it’s stress relief, it’s peace here. SBSS has really helped me get through my illness.
— Vidilia, 61 years young

Aging Into the Future 2019

Registration is now open for our 2019 Aging Into the Future Conference!

Are you over 50 and looking for the latest innovations to make your life easier? Are you a caregiver looking for tech solutions to help you better care for your parents and loved ones? Are you a tech company looking to connect with Southern California’s diverse 50+ market?

Join us for the must attend tech + aging event of the year!

Conference Features:

LEARN. Hear from expert speakers, attend workshops and learn something new.
EXPLORE. Experience the latest tech products and solutions at our Tech Expo.
CONNECT. Meet the organizations and resources that will help you get connected.
INFLUENCE. Test up-and-coming new products and influence tech startups to develop better solutions.

More info at www.agingintothefuture.com.

Sponsorship Opportunities and Tech Exhibit Booths Available

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